constraints and joy

At first I didn't under­stand twit­ter, but I've come to enjoy it. As a hob­bi­est writer, I appre­ci­ate the chal­lenge of 140 char­ac­ters. Strunk said to Omit need­less words, but twit­ter advances the con­cept. If I have a com­plex or mul­ti­step thought and want to tweet it, on a geeky level I like try­ing to cram


Pleasant Chaos

Check work email, check per­sonal email. My seven-month-old daugh­ter has a death grip on my thumbs as I teach her to walk and I'm scold­ing the twenty-two-month daugh­ter for pur­pose­fully putting a book on the floor in our path. (Can't step on books, instant time­out) The tone of my voice switches seam­lessly between encour­age­ment and


Persistent Television is Awesome

One of the great joys of this mod­ern world is the abil­ity to dis­cover cool video that isn't per­fectly current.


Why I Should Read Less

I had a draft of an essay in my google docs called "Being Cool is Expen­sive". Cou­ple hun­dred words, unpol­ished. Then I saw "New Device Desir­able, Old Device Unde­sir­able" from the Onion, which said every­thing I wanted to say, but bet­ter than I could have said it. The draft will die in my unpub­lished folder. Also,


Credit is a Hobby

Credit scores have a lot of reach into your qual­ity of life. Luck­ily, I took an inter­est in the topic years ago and doing so helped me get my fam­ily into a home.


Wrong Timing to Start a Blog

My les­son of the last cou­ple of weeks is: don't start a blog right before embark­ing on the pur­chase of your first home. I thought you just turned in a coupon at FirstHome­Mart, but it turns out that it's actu­ally some­what involved and time-consuming. My blog's not empty, it's austere!


Understanding New Parents

A few years ago, I ended up on the wrong side of this response: "Wait, I love my kids! STOP TALKING ABOUT KILLING MY KIDS!" I found this a lit­tle con­fus­ing, as we weren't talk­ing about killing any­one. How­ever, I've since become a par­ent, and I can offer an expla­na­tion and translation.


A New Hope

I used to write a lot of fic­tion. Unpaid–but I approached it with every­thing that I had. At the time I returned to being a full-time soft­ware engi­neer, I was a decent writer. Some years have passed since then.